There are many couples around us wherever we go. Sometimes looking at them having intimate actions and them showing their constant love for each other would seem rather envious to on-lookers. For those who are single i guess.

But is it simply joy throughout the whole relationship? Nopee, I doubt so...
If you ever came across any couples who claims that they have only been through happy moments, I’d say that they are either lying or they'r prolly kids~

Many times i've seen the girls getting bored, watching their BF playing with the computer at a LAN SHOP, or playing pool with their BF's which they obviously dont enjoy, tsktsk, thats not very nice isn't it. Both should be doing things that are enjoyed by both parties.
or maybe the girl just enjoys being with the guy. whatever~

Two person having to get together for a long time is definately not as easy task. It goes beyond simply love but includes key factors like trust, commitments, understanding, forgiveness and most importantly freedom.
One has to be able to accept the other’s social circle, habits and perhaps all other faults in order to stay happily together forever, which of course isnt easy at all…

But i feel these faults should be pointed out, so they ponder over what is right or wrong and to change , to accomodate each other~ thats understanding to me

Of couse, we often see couples breaking up and patching many many many times.

On-lookers might feel weird and wonder why aren’t they tired of each other after having so many break ups.
Why would they still want to be together with all the reasons they give each other when asking for a break-up???

But when we look from another angle, we might find that they are actually giving each other time and the chance to work on changing and to accomodate each other.
You might say that love is not about changing, but I’d say,”you change because you love”… And who knows that at the end of the day, such couples may be the most loving couple among us all.

Of course I’m not trying to say that everyone should juz break and patch, break and patch.....

There are of course times when couples just decides to leave each other and to get on with life. Maybe this could also be a right thing to do. It is never easy to break apart (though I see some doing it so easily), and it definately hurts to say it out.

But if it is for the better of both and that they see no point in trying to accomodate each other, this might be the best way out.

I've been watching girls for a long time and i think now i've a clue to why they'r not attractive to me, sometimes i imagine me spending time with them.
ewww, thats so not gonna happen!!!! i get disgusted.
You don't want to be spending time with someone who disgusts you right?
You would want to feel proud of the girl who is standing beside you and show everyone she belongs to you ~

Looks doesn’t matter, it never has. Not because you always see the pretty babes with the ugly guys. (it always happens)

But most people looking for a decent long lasting relationship with someone would definitely sought after someone whom they feel ultimately comfortable with being themselves

Its just a matter of spending time together, enjoying that particular person's company.
He/She would have to be the one who you MOST enjoy being with, not the 2nd nor 3rd person, it just wont end well.

well, if you love them u'll feel they are the most beautiful beings in the world.

Also seeking after someone whom they feel ultimately comfortable with being themselves.

Farting, digging your nose and smelling your armpits are some common habits that people would try not to display publically.
BUT you should feel comfortable doing all of this in front of your loved one, if not then I feel you shouldn’t plan to spend the rest of your life with him/her.


Not that its all gonna be as perfect as i said it, thats why theres changes~~

I hope I’m not getting too emo in this post, but I strongly feel that it takes two hands to clap. Similarly, to maintain a good and strong relationship takes two.

But of course, you can't survive on love alone, you need support from your friends, your family and not forgetting cash $$$.

But love just makes the world go round = )

Well, if you feel that it wont work out, then it wont.
shit happens sometimes.